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Well, how do you feel about them?
Be honest, and remember, we don't know you (or them, for that matter), so don't be ashamed.

Another thing, and this is my honest opinion, most people are online just like they are in real life. I talk from the experience, I met my last 2 girlfriend (3 if we count current one) on the internet and then IRL. Maybe I had luck, but that's my two cents.

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Because people on the internet think that I'm somewhat funny.

Of course, there's also a second option: Stop talking.

Nothing against anyone on this board, but I don't want anyone to feel pressured to publish the most intimate details of his/her life on an internet message board frequented by anonymous strangers. Just say as much as you're comfortable with, no more and no less.

Also, I'd encourage everyone here to remember that the advice offered here is free. You get what you pay for, right?

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This is truly a madhouse. And I'm the lunatic running it. I've spent three years wondering if I should be proud or ashamed.

Don't worry, Curi, I don't feel uncomfortable about this at all.

But anyway, all I can say about the ones I already know well and that have been friends with me for a while is that I love them, but it's more of a friendly kind of love than anything else.

As for the others, I just like them but I cannot really judge people until I've known them personally and for a while.

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Well, my advice (and this is what I would do in your position) is examine your chances with the girls you know, and, of course, meet the internet ones. Maybe you find your girl.

And Curiosity, I offered my help because he came looking for advice. Not forcing anyone.

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Never give you up
Never gonna let you down

English not very good. Forgive me.

http://www.ghondar.blogspot.com
Because people on the internet think that I'm somewhat funny.

I'm not accusing anyone of anything. I just thought it needed to be said.

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This is truly a madhouse. And I'm the lunatic running it. I've spent three years wondering if I should be proud or ashamed.

Curi is uptight waiting for the 6th

well, my advice is...give time to time...you must know them well.

apparently Giovanna is the one you know best, but...she doesn't seem to be as pretty as the others and that put you quite in the corner, right?

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Actually, they're all physically beautiful to me in their own way, so that doesn't really concern me.
I guess I just need to go out with them, but I guess I'll narrow it down to Giovanna and Sheerin. The third is not interested in having a boyfriend right now (I turn them to lesbianism, he brings them back) and the fourth one, I don't think she's interested in me.

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well, case close to closing. but...how sure can you be they won't suspect you're uh...evaluating them? and think about it...how would you feel if you knew a girl is doing with you and another couple of guys? so, i assume that by 'going out' with them, includes other people, right?

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I agree with this guy. Here, the term "going out" is like being a couple (with all the benefits), but you can see other people.

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Never give you up
Never gonna let you down

English not very good. Forgive me.

http://www.ghondar.blogspot.com
Because people on the internet think that I'm somewhat funny.

That's another thing that concerns me but what I think I should do is go out with them like friends and then with time, wait and see what happens.

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A cautionary tale, friend:
http://www.viruscomix.com/page458.html

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lollllllllllllllllll

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You can never say never and never say always.

Maybe I will throw in the ladies' perspective here because it seems to be uh sorely lacking in this thread.

Some girls don't mind open dating (which may or may not include "benefits") as long as you're straightforward about it. It depends a lot on the girl and what kinds of social groups you run in. In some circles, it is normal and expected during the first couple dates that you're also seeing other people. (By the third date I'd probably knock it off though unless you have an explicit understanding about it with all of the women you're involved with. Third date seems to be a pretty common landmark for when things are starting to get "serious.")

However: Girls don't like feeling like they're in some kind of reality show and you're gradually voting them off the island until there's only one left. If you barely know these girls and can't say which (if any) you're interested in dating, maybe you should hold off until you have a particular idea in mind of which ladies you dig. You can be friends, sure, but most ladies don't want their male friends to (not-so-)secretly want to bone them. It can be flattering, but it can also be intensely creepy. Most of the time it is creepy. Don't be creepy.

Most girls also don't like being judged based heavily or solely on appearance. It's demeaning to be thought of as some dude's potential arm jewelry. It's even more demeaning to be thought of that way by someone transparently feigning interest in things other than your tits. That calculating shit is both obvious and unattractive. If you look like Brad Pitt or just ooze charm or something, you might be able to get away with coming across as a douche, but otherwise, don't count on it.

This has been the Ladies' Corner, addressing the issues that affect you, gentle reader. We now return you to your regularly scheduled thread.

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"Under no circumstances should anyone encourage the ordinary person to be funny."
--Bob Mackey

Circusdog-You bring up some really good points. I guess I should just clear my mind off this subject and just let life do its work. Treat them as friends and if I actually begin to truly feel something, then go for it. I don't see why seeing them should be seen as "I'm going on a date with you" or "I'm testing you", specially since someone like Giovanna is one of my best friends and it's been a long, long time since I last saw her.

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it is what I actually meant

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I'll keep you posted, guys. I'll be back in this thread in fifty years.

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are u willing to divorce until then?

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Touche.

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There's some deep stuff goin' on over here two years ago.

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"There's a cello in your house now."

what's with the thread necromancy?

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