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You either should've stood up to him, or just don't worry bout it. You're not always going to like your friends' friends. That's just how it goes, dude.

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Mexicano Al Grito De Guerra

Agreed, I have a friend who recently made friends with a girl in one of her classes. For pretty vague and unknown reasons this new friend absolutely HATES me, but she remains friends with my friend because they get along.

Moral of the story: just because you don't like one of her friends doesn't mean she can't

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@RealSlimCAvery

Its temporarily "resolved" for now.
But I dont understand how she cant just up and become friends with an absolute asshole.
Not just any asshole.
It had to be the one that likes to pick fights with me.
I tend to be pretty easy going. But this guy lies about him and B behind her back saying that their bf/gf and that she secretly hates me. He's not JUST an asshole. he's trying to fuck up my friendship with her. And she either cant see it or is too INTO this guy that she refuses to see it. Eithr way, all I want her to do is look at this:
Is this guy worth losing my friendship over?
She WONT answer.
And the fact she wont answer... scares me more than I care to admit.
She's been my rock and I've been hers. For years.
We havent gone more than two days without talking since we met.
And I refuse to be around if that guy is. He's a self proclaimed "Jerk" who and I quote, enjoys "wrecking peoples lives, and being a total fucking asshole."

Thats worth losing my friendship over?

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

I can't help but notice that nearly every person you talk about is your rock

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I think you need to stop latching on to people so tight. Friends come and friends go. The ones that really matter just happen to stick around longer. Let them live their own lives, if they want to hang out with people you don't like, that's their problem.

If she breaks her friendship with you because of one guy, she probably wasn't as good a friend as you thought, and getting rid of her might not be so bad. If she is as great a friend as you think, one guy isn't gonna fuck things up, and you have nothing to worry about.

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Mexicano Al Grito De Guerra

I'm impressed, this is some really good advice.

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@RealSlimCAvery

tbh, its the same person.
Same chick that I had issues with that fucker Ed.
Except then I was just jealous, and he was only a dweeb.
I've known her longer than almost all my other friends.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

Things like this generally resolve themselves, and unfortunately, there's not a lot you can do. If you're too upfront about your dislike for this guy with her, you risk potentially coming across as an asshole, and that's never good. If this guy is half as bad as you make him out to be, it sounds like she'll eventually become aware of the fact that he's a douche. Even though it sounds like it already is this situation (almost), I'd try to avoid at all costs forcing her to chose between yourself or this other guy.

Like I said though, in my experience, things like this normally resolve themselves. In the case that you do drift apart, initially it will feel weird, but I am sure you'll find someone to talk to in the same way again (eventually). Otherwise, I'm sure you'll resume your friendship as normal soon. All close/intense friendships hit rough patches, but I wouldn't let her friendship with this guy ruin your friendship with her.

I have a similar situation with this guy at uni that I get on really well with, but his best mate keeps trying to hit on my girlfriend, but has also slept with 2 of my other close friends (and subsequently upset them). We still get on well, but if this asshole is with him, I just spend less time with him, I'm still civil though. I'm convinced their friendship won't last, but if it does, it won't affect me too badly. But then again, I don't depend on this guy as a friend in the same way in which you seem to depend on yours.

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Well I was talking to her earlier and I was pretty calm about it all.
I told her that I'm basically over it and dont want him to come between us.
i havent seen him since, but I hope I do. Simply so she can see how much of an asshole he is.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

So... you're not over it?

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@RealSlimCAvery

No.
I really don't wanna lose her over this guy, so if I have toplay nice, I will.
But I'm far from over it.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

I'm telling you man, this is a simple case of dog and human. You have to show him that you're the dominant male, by thus proceeding to kick his ass swiftly.

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That's how Cesar Millan does it.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

lmao this would so go in the classic posts thread except I'm too lazy atm.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

Or he could, you know, realize that some friends have friends you don't like but that doesn't mean the two of you can't remain friends.

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@RealSlimCAvery

Have you ever even been in a fight in your whole life?

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Say, Doc, did I ever tell you I'm the only metal that's liquid at room temperature?

Because lying to your friends is totally not a dick move

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Say, Doc, did I ever tell you I'm the only metal that's liquid at room temperature?

Several.

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Yup, you lost all of them.

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