xMaliciousMal wrote:
NiteOwl wrote:
Wow, that doesn't sound too bad.
Though I do have a few guy friends I hang out with on a semi-regular basis,
they simply won't hear about girl troubles.
One of them is engaged, and he's kind of an airhead to begin with,
and the other one has never even had a girlfriend.
I do have a straight lady friend who I hang out with daily.
As in almost every day for the past four years.
(that situation has its own VIP section for its own issues and baggage)
We've been described as like...
Butch and Sundance.
So I guess she's one of the guys?
Even though its impossible for me to see her that way...
OMG what is with you and women? Stop being friends with so many women to whom you are attracted! Take a women cleanse! Every story of yours is essentially "there's this girl I really like who views me as her gay boyfriend, life is so hard." No shit life is hard, you're in the friendzone with too many goddamn bitches! It's time to take a good hard look at your situation and reevaluate the scenario.
EDIT: dammit, stop hiding subliminal messages in your posts!
Well I've been friends with her longer than I've been romantically attracted to her?
If that helps?
Though to put this shit in perspective, she was engaged when I met her.
Two years after I met her, I met Kara. Since I'm not the type to run interference to get to a girl, I wasn't about to try and start shit with Ms.Sundance and Mr.Right. So I started pining for Kara.
In the midst of all this was the chick who lived with me at my friends place for a while, and connie, and a few others.
But I must say,
Ms.Sundance and Kara have been the two main players in this.
The problem is, I could probably reign shit in with Kara, Eight, and all my les friends.
But Ms.Sundance is my
best friend. Regardless whether or not I'm attracted to her.
Trying to... idk, move away, step back, whatever
anything that would fuck with the dynamic we have, would probably ruin me. And her.
What's Butch without Sundance?
What's Sundance without Butch?
Gratuitous subliminal message here.