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The planet where not everyone is promiscuous.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

You don't know the deffinition of promiscuity

And I didn't say he had to have sex with her, I asked what he meant with "holding off".

I mean, if both parties know there's something going on...

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Like I've said, I think this girl has issues. I know she can get heavy on the drinking (Although, compared to people I know who actually get drunk and high as fuck, she looks rather healthy.) and I'm not sure if she would be faithful. I know I'm not the only guy she flirts with, on the other hand, I'm not sure if I'm the only guy who she has confessed having a crush on...at least, recently.

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I don't know if it's just one of those games between couples, but the girl I'm in love with has posted she got married with her boyfriend (Whom she had listed as fianceé on Facebook.) Even without knowing the truthfulness behind that, reading that sentence really hit me in the gut and the heart.

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So, yes. That was true. Apparently they're already married or will get married in a couple of weeks. I've decided I will write her a letter of confession, and after that cut all my ties to her. It fucking hurts me to do so, but I think that in the end, it would be the best thing for both of us.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Fuck it man, don't write the letter, what will you gain with that ?

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Nothing. I just need her to know. I know it's too late, but I need it out of my system. And while I don't think this will be the case, a friend of mine tells me this could be like a PSA for her. She's probably rushing into this and it's not exactly the smartest move she's making. But I don't care about that, that would be totally collateral. I just don't want this to be a secret for me to take to the grave. Especially because months ago when we were sure she could die, I was saddened by the prospect of her not knowing how I feel and then dying.

I have to admit, I'm afraid of sometime in the future bumping into her boyfriend/husband and him killing or beating me up. But I guess I'm just being over pessimistic and paranoid.

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Well, do what you feel it's best if that's the case, best of luck then !

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Thanks!

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So I did send her the e-mail. I don't know how she reacted, that's one thing I would have liked from telling her in person but I'm pretty much out of time. Everything I've had of her is now gone.

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I'd post a frowny face emoticon, but emoticons are stupid in serious situations. Just know that I'm frowning intensely.

Anyway, that's pretty awful, I know more or less how you feel. It'd make sense for her to e-mail you back, though, illustrating her feelings about the situation and hopefully she does.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Sooooo......what would you do if she came back in a wedding dress saying she was always wrong and begging for you to take her ?

Slim chance I know.

Whatever the case, it's good you've managed to get it out of your chest if you felt it was something you really had to do, hope it only gets better for you after this !

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I just might. And anyway, I'm not sure how official this wedding might be. There was no ceremony, nothing. I don't even think they got any papers signed or at least I haven't seen them. So God knows what is actually going on, but whatever the case, I'm glad its off my chest.

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I'm smelling pregnancy, followed by quick marriage.

There's no such thing as a woman not celebrating her wedding !

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So, she did reply. She did get married afterall, I am not sure if officially so but again, she's talking as if she had without mentioning any papers, any church, any anything of any sort. Save for the party, which I was invited to. She respects my decision of distancing myself from her, but says that just because she's married she won't enclose herself. That last part alone pretty much tells me she doesn't know what a marriage is. Kids, relationships and people are VERY complex. If you remember the overcomplimentary girl I had met a few months ago, well, she now has a boyfriend and I wasn't saddened by that because I didn't feel the same way about her. But we bumped into each other today and well, let's just say she was obviously very happy to see me. It's customary to get kissed in the cheek as a hello or goodbye here. And her goodbye kiss was not just the friendly type. And that's just a crush. I'm in love with this girl, what would happen if I came over and visit? And her boyfriend/fiancee/husband is the jealous type, this cannot end well.

So, at least I got a reply and things are ending in a friendly way. It's definitely not the ending I wanted at all, but we both have a future ahead of us in different ways. Although a part of me does want her to call this off, I'd rather have her be happy and in a good marriage than otherwise. Meanwhile, I'll still try to break out of being single. Too many pretty girls in a hurry around me this summer. I wish one of them would settle down so we could talk at least for a bit. But hey who knows, it might happen soon.

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Let me get this straight:

By "not enclose herself", does she mean she is open to being with other people ?

Or did I just went too far ahead ?

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She meant still hanging out with friends.

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Yup, too far ahead !

Though honestly, I don't think that's so crazy of her, I mean, she can't obviously expect to party and screw around all the time, but marriage isn't the same thing it was twenty years ago.

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Yeah, I know. But I mean, I don't think it's a good idea for the "single best friend that loves her" to be around her it hat way, especially with the boyfriend being the jealous type.

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